Tell me - How would you feel if you knew that yr man was on MSN probably chatting to somne dirty sort. I can see that he is cause he dosent block me and I go online as offline so I cant say that I can see that he is online. Catch 22 - does that make sense?!!! Tonight he says he is having a night in with his son as a boys night. Thats some night seeing his son is only 10 Hmmmmm.
What would you do in my dilema. leave it because I shouldnt be looking or tackle it head on like a quarterback!!!
HEEEELP!!!!!!!!!
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- 2008-01-25 @ 22:34:47
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annameenamoon
- 2008-01-26 @ 10:08:10
Thanks I will watch and wait for an opening to say something
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- 2008-01-26 @ 10:18:52
I really hope it works out
but we are here for you if you need some support Good luck
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- 2008-01-26 @ 07:49:46
well, you don't know that he is chatting to another woman on MSN, and even if he is you don't know whether it is innocent or not. This strikes me as more of a symptom of something you need to talk to him about. Do you have reasons not to trust him`?
If yes, do you want to be in a relationship where that trust is missing?
It is tough, good luck whatever you do, but remember that if you are wrong, he may react badly-
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annameenamoon
- 2008-01-26 @ 10:16:18
...you are wise woman and yes probably I am reading too much into it. I do trust him totally although he admits he is no angel. I have no reason to think he is cheating on me although quite the opposite but he does seem to need this kind of fantasy world as Ive seen him on messenger many times before. I am going to wait for an opening to chat about being online and see
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- 2008-01-26 @ 12:30:46
there is an addictiveness about being online, and I think we all feel it to some degree or other. You will have to distract him with more interesting pursuits
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- 2008-01-28 @ 09:46:40
I`d set him up...not sure how...but i would...set up a bogus email address or something and try and draw him in...then hit him with it where it hurts!
Bit sneaky but they don`t call me Babooshka for nowt!
I really hope it works out well for you